I tell you, first you think about who you are NOT. For the time being, drop the question, ‘Who am I’?
If you come and tell me, “Gurudev, I know who I really am”, then that would mean you still do not know. And if you say, “I still do not know who I am”, then that too is not entirely true. I would say, first you try to understand who you are NOT.
Go on asking yourself, ‘Who am I not’? When you find that everything that you are NOT disappears and drops off, then a deep silence shall dawn within you.
Then you will realize that it is only YOU that really IS, and there is nothing else except YOU.