The very thought of saving oneself from attraction itself applies the brakes on it. Understand it this way. It is good. There should be brakes in a car; otherwise you will land up in trouble someday, okay.
And have a firm belief that life is full of love. We cannot make an effort to increase love, but the moment you become stress free, love manifests itself within us.
Two things need to be there for this – freedom from stress, and relaxation.
COURTESY OF: SRI SRI RAVI SHANKAR GURUJI